Can I please have another Me to Go!

This weekend I came to the realization that if I want to potty train Tazlin over weekends, I either need a nanny in to do the housework so I can be fully focused on her or and extra hand to help. Just an hour into Saturday morning with no nappy and she had two accidents, I had so much to do on Saturday and worrying about Tazlin not going to the potty on que wasn't one of them! I don't get it! That first weekend was a near success! And now, she's just not working with me. 
             I'll take her to sit on her potty, she either fights me not to sit on it or she only pee's a little...oh yay, potty song, cheering on clean-up and lets go...5minutes later she wets herself whilst rolling the toilet paper off the roll. I knew then and there what needed to be done! Nappy On!

That's the downside of working full day, you only have a set limit of time to do your house work and worrying about Tazlin wetting or messing herself is not going to be good for the house.

I just about had it again on Saturday evening....I lost it! I told him I can't believe that he appreciates what I do around the house. Yeah sure, he tells me how much he appreciates what I'm doing but 5minutes later he tosses his clothes on the floor next to his side of the bed to join another three sets of clothing he is supposedly going to wear again. I don't need him to tell me he appreciates me, I need him to show me by doing his part to keep the house tidy after I clean up.

I've had it, I can't work 24hrs a day ~ I know that is expected of mothers, but what the heck about the fathers. If I was a SAHM I'd have nothing to complain about, but I can't even enjoy the 3hours after work before Tazlin goes to bed with her since I have to, cook, clean & get the bath ready and when I ask him to watch her whilst I cook, he puts a movie on for her then goes and plays games on the PC. How come men has it so easy!?

Yeah, I know wishing won't improve the situation but I really do wish I could have another me to help around the house - also so I can have a few extra minutes to spend with my precious child each day.


At least there is one up-side to my working full day!

Last week Monday I went from feeling like the underdog to being on top of the world in less than five minutes. Why? Well, I just got appointed to load all the stock with pictures and description onto our company's new e-commerce website and on top of that I'll get the commission on the products sold on the website, since I am doing all the work in loading it....mmmm, I just hope I'll get a good deal in the commission %, it won't help me squat if it's less than 10% since the mark-up isn't even that mighty!

Oh Well, I am the child of the Living God ~ so I'll just ask for an A -instead of a C....